reported that Beijing will hold a gay pageant  but will the pageant suffer the same fate as the gay bar in Yunnan province? At least the bar finally opened, although postponed for a while.

Just like the article said, Chinese society not to be so tolerant to gay people so they tend to hide their identity by marrying women and getting children. Tow parts are suffering in the marriage.  However, I feel recently there are more and more news reports about Chinese gay men swarmed in the society, to tell people that they’re normal and should have equal right to get married with each other and be respected.

Chinese society traditionally think a marriage should be composed with a man, a woman and a child. so even the “DINK” (Double Income No Kids) families are blamed often by the older generation. People around the family may think the couple to have illness which cause them not to born a kid. So you can imagine their reactions when they know two men build a family!

“abnormality” and “disgusting” are the most used words to describe gays not only in China, but all over the world I believe. people all have dard side in their hearts, which make them happy to bully others who don’t have the ability or the courage to fight back. so when they think they’re right and be superior to gays, they started to curse and bully them, thinking they won’t fight back since they’re “abnormal”. Just like when you want to prove yourselve, you can do harder or bully poorer ones.

Gays began to fight for their rights in China, meaning that they are more and more educated and want to be equal with other, while the Chinese society are being more tolerant to them. and, with the low birth rate of girls in the future, who knows whether it’ll be legal for a man to marry a guy in China decades later?

AP

BEIJING – The Mr. Gay China pageant is coming up and contestant David Wu is a bit worried.

It’s not the underwear competition that’s making him jittery — he’s been working out harder than usual to get ready. And he’s looking forward to the opportunity to meet other “comrades,” as gay men in China are called.

Just one thing troubles the handsome 30-year-old: His parents don’t know he’s gay.

“Most Chinese media won’t cover it (the pageant), so I think it’s unlikely that my parents will find out about me because of this event,” said Wu, from the southwestern city of Chengdu. “On the other hand, if they did … maybe it’s a good opportunity to tell them.”